On Monday morning I got my second call from Oxford. The logistics this time were a bit different as we were both at work so had to get home, contact my parents to pick up the kids, and then left form Oxford.
After about an hour and a half we got a phone call in the car to say that the organ were not suitable and they were cancelling the operation. We turned around and headed home. I had mixed feelings again - relief that the stress and anxiety of getting there is over and disappointment that it is not going to happen this time.